Pointing Things Out: This, That, These, Those

Mastering how to point things out is an essential step for beginners learning basic English grammar.
In this lesson, we will explore the four demonstrative words: this, that, these, and those.
You will learn exactly how to choose the right word based on whether an object is singular or plural.
We will also cover how physical distance (near versus far) completely changes the word you need to use.
By understanding these simple rules, you will speak more naturally and confidently in everyday conversations.

Master beginner English grammar with this easy ESL lesson on demonstratives. Learn the simple rules for when to use "This," "That," "These," and "Those" to point out specific people, places, or things. Improve your basic English speaking and writing skills with clear examples of singular and plural nouns based on distance (near and far) in this essential language learning guide.

1. Overview: What Are Demonstratives?

In English, when we want to point to a specific person, place, or thing, we use special words called demonstratives. There are only four of these words to remember: This, That, These, and Those.

To choose the correct word, you must always ask yourself two simple questions:

  • Number: Am I talking about one thing (singular) or more than one thing (plural)?
  • Distance: Is the thing close to me (near) or away from me (far)?

2. Singular Nouns: This and That

If you are pointing at exactly one item, you must use either This or That.

Using "This" (Singular + Near)

Use This when you are talking about one single thing that is physically close to you. You can usually touch it or hold it in your hand.

This is my new phone. (Holding the phone)
I really like this book. (Reading the book right now)
Is this your coffee? (Pointing to the cup on the table next to you)

Using "That" (Singular + Far)

Use That when you are talking about one single thing that is far away from you. You usually have to point your finger across the room to show what you mean.

That is my car over there. (Pointing across the street)
Look at that bird in the sky! (Looking up far away)
Who is that man by the door? (Looking across the room)

3. Plural Nouns: These and Those

If you are pointing at two or more items, you must use either These or Those.

Using "These" (Plural + Near)

Use These when you are talking about multiple things that are physically close to you.

These are my shoes. (They are right next to your feet)
Are these your keys? (Holding the keys in your hand)
I love these flowers. (Smelling the flowers right in front of you)

Using "Those" (Plural + Far)

Use Those when you are talking about multiple things that are far away from you.

Those are very expensive houses. (Pointing at houses down the street)
Can you pass me those plates? (Pointing at plates on the other end of the table)
Those apples look delicious. (Looking at apples on a high shelf)

4. The Distance Rule: Near vs. Far

Here is a simple summary chart to help you remember the rules instantly. Memorize this table to easily pick the correct word.

DistanceSingular (One)Plural (Two or more)
Near (Close to me)ThisThese
Far (Away from me)ThatThose

5. Common Mistakes and Pronunciation

Many learners make simple mistakes with these four words. Read these tips to sound more like a native speaker!

Mistake 1: Pronunciation of This vs. These

"This" has a short 'i' sound and a soft 's' at the end (sounds like thiss).
"These" has a long 'ee' sound and a buzzing 'z' at the end (sounds like theez).

Mistake 2: Mixing Singular Words with Plural Verbs

Always match the verb "to be" with your demonstrative. Use is for This and That. Use are for These and Those.

Wrong: This are my friend.
Correct: This is my friend.

Wrong: Those is my bags.
Correct: Those are my bags.

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break into

break+into
Ultra Core

enter a building or place illegally or by force

Example

Someone tried to break into the store last night.

Grammar & classification
Two Word Inseparable Transitive Particle: into Enter Illegally

block off

block+off
Extended

close or block access to a place or route

Example

Police had to block off the street.

Grammar & classification
Two Word Separable Transitive Particle: off Block Access

look up to

look+up+to
Ultra Core

respect and admire someone

Example

Many young players look up to her.

Grammar & classification
Three Word Inseparable Transitive Particle: up Admire

hold off

hold+off
Ultra Core

delay something until a later time

Example

They decided to hold off the meeting until Friday.

Grammar & classification
Two Word Both Both Particle: off Postpone

pass out

pass+out
Ultra Core

give or distribute something to several people

Example

Please pass out these papers to the class.

Grammar & classification
Two Word Separable Transitive Particle: out Distribute

Sense: distribute.

change over

change+over
Common

switch from one system, method, or product to another

Example

The office will change over to the new software next month.

Grammar & classification
Two Word Inseparable Intransitive Particle: over Switch System

carry on

carry+on
Ultra Core

continue doing something

Example

We need to carry on until the work is finished.

Grammar & classification
Two Word Inseparable Both Particle: on Continue

blow up

blow+up
Common

explode or cause something to explode

Example

The old battery could blow up.

Grammar & classification
Two Word Separable Both Particle: up Explode

play down

play+down
Common

make something seem less important or serious than it is

Example

Do not play down the risks.

Grammar & classification
Two Word Separable Transitive Particle: down Minimize

run into

run+into
Ultra Core

meet someone unexpectedly

Example

I run into an old friend downtown.

Grammar & classification
Two Word Inseparable Transitive Particle: into Meet Unexpectedly

put together

put+together
Ultra Core

assemble or combine parts into a whole

Example

We can put together the table in an hour.

Grammar & classification
Two Word Separable Transitive Particle: together Assemble

send back

send+back
Common

send an item back to the person or place it came from

Example

I need to send back this damaged item.

Grammar & classification
Two Word Separable Transitive Particle: back Return Send

power down

power+down
Extended

stop or deactivate a machine, device, or system

Example

Please power down the computer before you leave.

Grammar & classification
Two Word Separable Both Particle: down Deactivate

boot up

boot+up
Extended

start a computer or electronic system

Example

The computer takes a minute to boot up.

Grammar & classification
Two Word Inseparable Intransitive Particle: up Activate

switch off

switch+off
Common

stop or deactivate a machine, device, or system

Example

Please switch off the computer before you leave.

Grammar & classification
Two Word Separable Transitive Particle: off Deactivate

look after

look+after
Ultra Core

take care of a person, animal, or thing

Example

She has to look after her younger brother today.

Grammar & classification
Two Word Inseparable Transitive Particle: after Care For

fall off

fall+off
Ultra Core

decrease in amount, level, speed, or intensity

Example

The noise should fall off after midnight.

Grammar & classification
Two Word Inseparable Intransitive Particle: off Decrease

stand for

stand+for
Ultra Core

accept or tolerate an unpleasant situation or behavior

Example

I will not stand for that rude behavior.

Grammar & classification
Two Word Inseparable Transitive Particle: for Tolerate

Sense: tolerate, usually in negatives.

give up

give+up
Ultra Core

stop doing or using something, especially a habit

Example

He is trying to give up smoking.

Grammar & classification
Two Word Separable Transitive Particle: up Stop Habit

dig into

dig+into
Extended

investigate or examine a subject or problem carefully

Example

The team will dig into the complaint.

Grammar & classification
Two Word Inseparable Transitive Particle: into Investigate