Pointing Things Out: This, That, These, Those

Mastering how to point things out is an essential step for beginners learning basic English grammar.
In this lesson, we will explore the four demonstrative words: this, that, these, and those.
You will learn exactly how to choose the right word based on whether an object is singular or plural.
We will also cover how physical distance (near versus far) completely changes the word you need to use.
By understanding these simple rules, you will speak more naturally and confidently in everyday conversations.

Master beginner English grammar with this easy ESL lesson on demonstratives. Learn the simple rules for when to use "This," "That," "These," and "Those" to point out specific people, places, or things. Improve your basic English speaking and writing skills with clear examples of singular and plural nouns based on distance (near and far) in this essential language learning guide.

1. Overview: What Are Demonstratives?

In English, when we want to point to a specific person, place, or thing, we use special words called demonstratives. There are only four of these words to remember: This, That, These, and Those.

To choose the correct word, you must always ask yourself two simple questions:

  • Number: Am I talking about one thing (singular) or more than one thing (plural)?
  • Distance: Is the thing close to me (near) or away from me (far)?

2. Singular Nouns: This and That

If you are pointing at exactly one item, you must use either This or That.

Using "This" (Singular + Near)

Use This when you are talking about one single thing that is physically close to you. You can usually touch it or hold it in your hand.

This is my new phone. (Holding the phone)
I really like this book. (Reading the book right now)
Is this your coffee? (Pointing to the cup on the table next to you)

Using "That" (Singular + Far)

Use That when you are talking about one single thing that is far away from you. You usually have to point your finger across the room to show what you mean.

That is my car over there. (Pointing across the street)
Look at that bird in the sky! (Looking up far away)
Who is that man by the door? (Looking across the room)

3. Plural Nouns: These and Those

If you are pointing at two or more items, you must use either These or Those.

Using "These" (Plural + Near)

Use These when you are talking about multiple things that are physically close to you.

These are my shoes. (They are right next to your feet)
Are these your keys? (Holding the keys in your hand)
I love these flowers. (Smelling the flowers right in front of you)

Using "Those" (Plural + Far)

Use Those when you are talking about multiple things that are far away from you.

Those are very expensive houses. (Pointing at houses down the street)
Can you pass me those plates? (Pointing at plates on the other end of the table)
Those apples look delicious. (Looking at apples on a high shelf)

4. The Distance Rule: Near vs. Far

Here is a simple summary chart to help you remember the rules instantly. Memorize this table to easily pick the correct word.

DistanceSingular (One)Plural (Two or more)
Near (Close to me)ThisThese
Far (Away from me)ThatThose

5. Common Mistakes and Pronunciation

Many learners make simple mistakes with these four words. Read these tips to sound more like a native speaker!

Mistake 1: Pronunciation of This vs. These

"This" has a short 'i' sound and a soft 's' at the end (sounds like thiss).
"These" has a long 'ee' sound and a buzzing 'z' at the end (sounds like theez).

Mistake 2: Mixing Singular Words with Plural Verbs

Always match the verb "to be" with your demonstrative. Use is for This and That. Use are for These and Those.

Wrong: This are my friend.
Correct: This is my friend.

Wrong: Those is my bags.
Correct: Those are my bags.

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clam up

clam+up
Extended

suddenly become silent and refuse to talk

Example

He clammed up when they asked about the mistake.

Grammar & classification
Two Word Inseparable Intransitive Particle: up Become Silent

see off

see+off
Common

go with someone to the place where they leave and say goodbye

Example

We went to the airport to see off our friends.

Grammar & classification
Two Word Separable Transitive Particle: off See Depart

join in

join+in
Extended

participate in an activity with other people

Example

Would you like to join in the discussion?

Grammar & classification
Two Word Inseparable Intransitive Particle: in Participate

listen in

listen+in
Extended

listen secretly or deliberately to a conversation not meant for you

Example

Someone was listening in on our conversation.

Grammar & classification
Two Word Inseparable Intransitive Particle: in Eavesdrop

turn around

turn+around
Ultra Core

improve or change a situation significantly

Example

The company hopes to turn around the situation this year.

Grammar & classification
Two Word Separable Both Particle: around Improve Change

chop up

chop+up
Extended

cut something into small pieces

Example

Please chop up the vegetables before cooking them.

Grammar & classification
Two Word Separable Transitive Particle: up Cut Pieces

turn in

turn+in
Ultra Core

submit or deliver work, a document, or an assignment

Example

You must turn in the form by Friday.

Grammar & classification
Two Word Separable Transitive Particle: in Submit

Sense: submit work.

cash in on

cash+in+on
Extended

gain money or advantage from an opportunity or situation

Example

Some businesses try to cash in on new trends.

Grammar & classification
Three Word Inseparable Transitive Particle: in Profit From

read over

read+over
Common

read something again to check or review it

Example

Please read over your answer before submitting it.

Grammar & classification
Two Word Separable Transitive Particle: over Read Review

sort out

sort+out
Common

solve a problem or find a satisfactory answer

Example

We can sort out this problem together.

Grammar & classification
Two Word Separable Transitive Particle: out Solve

freeze up

freeze+up
Extended

become unable to move, speak, or function because of fear or a technical problem

Example

My computer may freeze up if too many programs are open.

Grammar & classification
Two Word Inseparable Intransitive Particle: up Freeze Stop

take apart

take+apart
Ultra Core

separate something into its individual parts

Example

We need to take apart the machine before moving it.

Grammar & classification
Two Word Separable Transitive Particle: apart Disassemble

cool down

cool+down
Extended

become less hot or make something less hot; also become calmer

Example

Let the engine cool down before you touch it.

Grammar & classification
Two Word Separable Both Particle: down Become Cool

head back

head+back
Common

return to a place or previous situation

Example

We should head back before it gets dark.

Grammar & classification
Two Word Inseparable Intransitive Particle: back Return

nod off

nod+off
Extended

fall asleep for a short time, often unintentionally

Example

I nearly nod off during the movie.

Grammar & classification
Two Word Inseparable Intransitive Particle: off Doze

drop out

drop+out
Common

leave a school, course, competition, or activity before finishing

Example

He decided not to drop out of the course.

Grammar & classification
Two Word Inseparable Intransitive Particle: out Leave Course

pass on

pass+on
Ultra Core

give information, an object, or a message to another person

Example

Please pass on this message to the team.

Grammar & classification
Two Word Separable Transitive Particle: on Pass Transmit

Sense: transmit.

line up

line+up
Extended

arrange people or things in a line or organized sequence

Example

Please line up the chairs along the wall.

Grammar & classification
Two Word Separable Both Particle: up Arrange Line

bottle up

bottle+up
Extended

hide or suppress strong feelings instead of expressing them

Example

Do not bottle up your feelings for too long.

Grammar & classification
Two Word Separable Transitive Particle: up Suppress Feelings

touch down

touch+down
Extended

land on the ground, especially an aircraft

Example

The plane should touch down at noon.

Grammar & classification
Two Word Inseparable Intransitive Particle: down Land Aircraft