English Grammar Guide: Demonstratives (This/That/These/Those), Possessives, and "There Is/Are"

Understanding how to point out specific objects, express ownership, and state existence are essential milestones in learning beginner English grammar. This comprehensive guide breaks down the critical differences between the demonstrative words "this," "that," "these," and "those," teaching you how physical distance dictates their use. You will also learn how to properly apply possessive adjectives (my, your, his, her) to indicate ownership without confusing them with pronouns. Furthermore, we explore how to declare that something exists using the phrases "there is" and "there are," including their negative and question forms. Finally, this lesson covers simple commands (the imperative mood), showing you how to give direct instructions and form negative commands effortlessly.

1. Demonstratives: This vs. That

In English, we use words called demonstratives to point out specific people, places, or things. The words this and that are used exclusively for singular nouns (just one item). The difference between them comes down to physical or temporal distance.

  • This: Used for a single item that is near you (you can touch it or it is right next to you). It is also used for things happening right now.
  • That: Used for a single item that is far from you (you have to point at it across the room or across town). It is also used for things that happened in the past.
Near (This): This apple in my hand is delicious.
Near (This): Who is this person standing next to me?

Far (That): That car across the street is very fast.
Far (That): Do you see that bird in the sky?

2. Plural Demonstratives: These vs. Those

When you are talking about plural nouns (two or more items), you cannot use "this" or "that." Instead, you must use their plural counterparts: these and those. The rules of distance remain exactly the same.

  • These: The plural form of "this." Used for multiple items that are near you.
  • Those: The plural form of "that." Used for multiple items that are far from you.
Near (These): These shoes I am wearing are very tight.
Near (These): Are these your papers on my desk?

Far (Those): Those mountains in the distance are beautiful.
Far (Those): Please bring me those boxes over there.

3. Possessive Adjectives (My, Your, His, Her)

Possessive adjectives are used to show ownership or possession—they tell us who something belongs to. Unlike possessive pronouns (like "mine" or "yours"), possessive adjectives must always go directly before a noun.

Here is the complete list of possessive adjectives paired with their corresponding subject pronouns:

Subject PronounPossessive AdjectiveExample Sentence
IMyMy phone is ringing.
YouYourIs this your jacket?
HeHisJohn left his keys.
SheHerSarah loves her new job.
ItIts (no apostrophe!)The dog wagged its tail.
WeOurOur team won the game.
TheyTheirThe students opened their books.

Crucial Rule to Remember: Do not confuse its (possessive) with it's (a contraction of "it is").

4. Expressing Existence: There is / There are

When we want to say that something exists in a specific place, we use the phrases "there is" and "there are". The choice between the two depends entirely on the noun that comes immediately after the verb.

  • There is: Used with singular nouns (one item) and uncountable nouns (like water, air, information).
  • There are: Used with plural countable nouns (two or more items).

Forming Negatives and Questions

To make it negative, add not (or the contractions isn't / aren't). To ask a question, simply swap the order of the words to "Is there...?" or "Are there...?".

Singular Affirmative: There is a cat on the roof. (Contraction: There's a cat...)
Plural Affirmative: There are three apples on the table.

Negative: There isn't any milk left in the fridge.
Negative: There aren't any chairs in the room.

Question: Is there a bank near here?
Question: Are there many people at the party?

5. Simple Commands (The Imperative Mood)

When you want to give a direct instruction, an order, or a warning, you use the imperative mood. Forming simple commands in English is incredibly easy because you completely drop the subject (the word "you" is implied) and start the sentence directly with the base form of the verb.

Affirmative Commands

Start the sentence with the action verb.

Sit down, please.
Open your textbooks to page 4.
Listen carefully to the instructions.

Negative Commands

To tell someone not to do something, always begin the sentence with Do not (or the common contraction Don't), followed by the base verb.

Do not touch that hot stove!
Don't forget your umbrella.
Don't run in the hallways.

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bank on

bank+on
Extended

depend on someone or something happening

Example

You can bank on her to arrive on time.

Grammar & classification
Two Word Inseparable Transitive Particle: on Rely

hand over

hand+over
Common

give control, responsibility, or possession to another person

Example

Please hand over the keys to the manager.

Grammar & classification
Two Word Separable Transitive Particle: over Transfer Control

go with

go+with
Ultra Core

match or look good together with something

Example

This shirt should go with those pants.

Grammar & classification
Two Word Inseparable Transitive Particle: with Match Suit

calm down

calm+down
Extended

become less angry, excited, or nervous, or make someone calmer

Example

Take a minute to calm down before you answer.

Grammar & classification
Two Word Separable Both Particle: down Become Calm

let off

let+off
Ultra Core

release someone or something from confinement or control

Example

The judge may let the driver off with a warning.

Grammar & classification
Two Word Separable Transitive Particle: off Release

Sense: release from punishment or obligation.

make up

make+up
Ultra Core

invent an idea, explanation, story, or plan

Example

We need to make up a better solution.

Grammar & classification
Two Word Separable Transitive Particle: up Invent

Sense: invent a story or explanation.

head back

head+back
Common

return to a place or previous situation

Example

We should head back before it gets dark.

Grammar & classification
Two Word Inseparable Intransitive Particle: back Return

turn out

turn+out
Ultra Core

have a particular result or develop in a particular way

Example

The event may turn out better than expected.

Grammar & classification
Two Word Inseparable Intransitive Particle: out Result

Sense: result or develop.

face up to

face+up+to
Common

accept and deal with a difficult fact, responsibility, or problem

Example

We must face up to the real problem.

Grammar & classification
Three Word Inseparable Transitive Particle: up Confront

put together

put+together
Ultra Core

assemble or combine parts into a whole

Example

We can put together the table in an hour.

Grammar & classification
Two Word Separable Transitive Particle: together Assemble

wash up

wash+up
Common

wash dishes after a meal; in British English, also wash your hands and face

Example

I will wash up after dinner.

Grammar & classification
Two Word Inseparable Intransitive Particle: up Wash Dishes

save up

save+up
Common

save money gradually for a future purpose

Example

We are trying to save up for a vacation.

Grammar & classification
Two Word Inseparable Intransitive Particle: up Save Money

kick off

kick+off
Common

start an activity, process, business, or event

Example

The new project is ready to kick off.

Grammar & classification
Two Word Separable Both Particle: off Start

get back

get+back
Ultra Core

return to a place or previous situation

Example

We should get back before it gets dark.

Grammar & classification
Two Word Inseparable Both Particle: back Return

put out

put+out
Ultra Core

publish, release, or make something available

Example

The company will put out a new guide next week.

Grammar & classification
Two Word Separable Transitive Particle: out Publish Release

Sense: publish or release.

pass out

pass+out
Ultra Core

lose consciousness for a short time

Example

He almost pass out because of the heat.

Grammar & classification
Two Word Inseparable Intransitive Particle: out Faint

Sense: faint.

drum up

drum+up
Extended

try to create interest, support, or business

Example

The team is trying to drum up support for the project.

Grammar & classification
Two Word Separable Transitive Particle: up Generate Support

close down

close+down
Common

stop operating a business, organization, or facility

Example

The store will close down at the end of the year.

Grammar & classification
Two Word Separable Both Particle: down Cease Business

stop by

stop+by
Common

visit someone informally for a short time

Example

Why don’t you stop by after work?

Grammar & classification
Two Word Inseparable Intransitive Particle: by Visit Casually

work through

work+through
Ultra Core

deal with a difficult issue step by step

Example

We can work through the problem together.

Grammar & classification
Two Word Inseparable Transitive Particle: through Process Emotions